Four Taboo Of Business Conversation

　　 Business contacts Conversation is essential. Conversation Of Skill You can get twice the result with half the effort. Remember, business talks are available. Four taboo :

　 1 avoid interrupting each other.

When the two sides talk, the superior can interrupt the lower level. The elders can interrupt the younger generation. The equal status person has no power to interrupt the conversation. In case you speak with the other party at the same time, you should say "you please" and let the other side speak first.

　　 2 avoid complementing each other.

Some people are good teachers, always want to seem to know more than the other side, more superior than the other side. In fact, there is no correct position for this problem, because people differ greatly in their views on the same issue. For example, if you say that Beijing has cooled down, the other party will tell you that it is snowing heavily in Harbin. Of course, if the two sides are equal and familiar with each other, sometimes it is no harm to supplement each other's talks, but they can never complement each other at the negotiating table.

　　 3 avoid correcting each other.

"Ten miles and different winds, hundred miles are different customs." People from different countries, different regions and different cultural backgrounds consider the same problem, and the conclusion is not necessarily the same. A truly cultured person is one who knows how to respect others. Respecting others means respecting the other's choice. In addition to the question of right and wrong, we must give a clear-cut answer. The general problems in interpersonal communication are not always debating with others, yes or no.

Give an example

Americans eat crabs and eat pliers, and the rest do not. Chinese are used to eating yellow cream. At this point, you can not say "you are stupid, eating crabs should eat yellow cream."

In China, nods agree with each other, shaking their heads in opposition, but in some countries such as Macedonia, Bulgaria and Nepal, on the contrary, nodding their heads in opposition and shaking their heads in agreement.

So please remember a social principle: accept others psychologically. Each person's education level is different, his career background is different, and the problem of consideration is different. So we must be tolerant and not impose our own judgement on others.

　 4 avoid questioning each other.

Don't cast doubt on what others say. It is important not to write a face, but not to write it on the face. If you don't pay attention, it's easy to cause trouble. Questioning each other is actually a provocation against their dignity and an irrational act. Such problems in interpersonal communication deserve great attention.